Here we go again…

More sex talk from the ‘apparently endlessly-horny’ Dr. Oz, since he keeps talking about sex as often as any other topic besides obesity.

I wonder if Lisa ever gets bored with his penchant for penile discussion? I know that I do!

But let’s talk about today’s show. Dr. Oz and his two guest experts discussed the top five things that many men don’t want women to know they are thinking about when it comes to sex.

I don’t know very many men like these, but the doctor and his experts seem to think they exist; so some of you must encounter them in your lives…or be one of them.

Dr. Oz and the Top 5 Things That Men Don’t Want You to Know They Think About Sex

Whether it’s premature ejaculation, watching porn to get ideas, masturbating, wondering if you can remain monogamous, or dealing with any other issues; men opened up and shared their deepest fears and concerns with the professionals.

I most liked the male guest’s responses to the men’s fears. The best point of the entire discussion was about porn. Women do not want their partners to be performing those abnormal acts on them, so getting ideas from watching porn is a ‘bad idea’. The men need to trust that their female partners will tell them what is gratifying to them, instead of guessing or trying out bizarre behaviors that depart from the norm and which are considered gross to many women.

I also appreciated the comment that when a man is masturbating, that he thinks about his partner to begin to correlate the neural pathways in the brain with the relationship. That was a useful suggestion…

Naturally, intimacy is more authentic when true communication opens a channel for partners to talk about anything and everything. That advice to hug for at least 30 seconds or longer was also a good idea. Hugs and eye contact can do more for a relationship than most males realize.

If you really need to spice up your style, then read the Kama Sutra, go to a Kundalini Workshop, learn about Tantric Yoga, or spend more time figuring out why you keep so much energy coiled in your First Seal! There are healthier things to do with all of that Life Force…

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